Embrace Change.

So every person thought that they would be close to their "great" friends for decades to come but then the reality ticked in.
People fall apart, sometimes because of fights, sometimes out of ego, sometimes out of time barriers and most often than not, people fall apart for no reason. Yeah, no reason! So what's the root cause of this?

As we grow numerically, we also grow mentally too. And the things we liked as kids, maybe a particular flavor of ice cream, as we grow out taste changes.
Our views change.
We are exposed to so many new things and we interact with variety of people which directly or indirectly affects our perspective.
So the person we were once immensely in love with suddenly becomes 'just another person'. And that's fine. It's not a crime! The person you had once slept with promising a bond for lifetime is the same person now too but the things that you from the one you love has changed. It's a natural phenomenon to change and I think it's a must.
By being rigid, you'll only inflict more and more pain on yourself. What's important is that we accept that our taste changes and that not everyone can last forever.
So let lose the barrier and embrace the changes.

Wear your heart on your sleeve. Love defiantly. Don't be afraid to fall in love over again.

Remember, things are not meant to last. It's better to have a sweet end than to have a bitter going.

Do not spend time trying to Convince someone that you're worth it, let them realise your worth. Be patient.
And most importantly, don't let the fear of falling apart stop you from growing. Grow every minute, meet new people and learn something from each one you meet. Interact, go explore the world.

Don't cling to people, memories or emotions. Only when you let go of your past, will you know what awaits in the present!

Do not let anyone be the other half of your soul, let that person remind you that you're already a whole! :D

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