A Changed Perspective.

So every person thought that they would be close to their "great" friends for decades to come but then the reality ticked in. People fall apart, sometimes because of fights, sometimes out of ego, sometimes out of time barriers and most often than not, people fall apart for no reason. Yeah, no reason! So what's the root cause of this? As we grow numerically, we also grow mentally too. And the things we liked as kids, maybe a particular flavor of ice cream, as we grow out taste changes. Our views change. We are exposed to so many new things and we interact with variety of people which directly or indirectly affects our perspective. So the person we were once immensely in love with suddenly becomes 'just another person'. And that's fine. It's not a crime! The person you had once slept with promising a bond for lifetime is the same person now too but the things that you from the one you love has changed. It's a natural phenomenon to change and I think

Is there something that is eating you up from within? Is there anything that is causing you pain or keeping you from your happiness? There is always something or the other that constantly keeps vexing each one of us. And these flusters hurt the soul and summon misery. It is like a vicious cycle of life. Negativity begets Negativity! But it's in our hand how we respond to this! If we react in a trice, we will definitely fall in the trap of this vicious cycle! There is prodigious difference between a reaction and a response. When you act without thinking rationally, it's reaction. Response is when you calmly analyse and then act in a sensible manner. The difference between reacting and responding is choice! Haven't we heard, "jaldi ka kaam shaitan ka kaam!"  When you have a brawl with a friend and they say something offensive, don't you feel like promptly snapping back at them and showing that you're no less? But This will only ruin your relationsh

“We're often afraid of looking at our shadow because we want to avoid the shame or embarrassment that comes along with admitting mistakes.”  -Marianne Williamson To err is human, but it takes a real man to admit those mistakes. And once the mistake is accepted, the next big question that arises is that whether we learn something from it or just let it pass. Mistakes do not mean failure, it only means you tried. And in life, we reach the acme only when we try! If we laugh over our mistakes, taking them in good spirits and keep trying, people will be bound to pay respect.  Every once in a while, we break down, feel low, crestfallen, sad, we feel miserable about the best of the things, ever wondered why? It is simply because ‘Like begets Like’, the first negative vibe (for eg: sadness) that we send to the universe attracts more of it. So instead of making up for the sadness, you receive more of it and ultimately you have a lousy day. Similarly, if we make a mistake and keep

Oh! That fateful night, I had no clue, Finally one day I would have to bid adieu. They said I would be "just fine", Nothing will happen with just a line! But that one line of crystal sucked me, The craving bad already begun and I knew it wouldn't set me free. Days after days, it went on, I knew one day I would realize but then it will be all gone. My body refused to stop, it only wanted more, If only I knew before  drug  was such a dirty whore! My mind warned me, it wanted to live, Happily with my Family at least till eighty five! I soon lost my friend, family and my sanity, But none of it reduced the addiction's gravity. And then finally came one day, It was another normal day, I would say. My heart was pumping at the fastest rate, My eyes couldn't focus straight! I wanted nothing but more meth, Every minute I knew that I was tickling myself to death! But from here there was no way of going back, Every minute I feared the death attack! And that was it, finally