RESPOND THOUGHTFULLY!

Is there something that is eating you up from within?
Is there anything that is causing you pain or keeping you from your happiness?

There is always something or the other that constantly keeps vexing each one of us. And these flusters hurt the soul and summon misery. It is like a vicious cycle of life. Negativity begets Negativity!

But it's in our hand how we respond to this!
If we react in a trice, we will definitely fall in the trap of this vicious cycle!
There is prodigious difference between a reaction and a response.
When you act without thinking rationally, it's reaction. Response is when you calmly analyse and then act in a sensible manner.
The difference between reacting and responding is choice!
Haven't we heard, "jaldi ka kaam shaitan ka kaam!" 

When you have a brawl with a friend and they say something offensive, don't you feel like promptly snapping back at them and showing that you're no less? But This will only ruin your relationship and precipitate further cripples.
Have you thought, if you, for a minute keep aside your ego and don't foam at mouth at that moment, you'll actually make your life drama free! It's important to get hold of yourself and act in a matured manner instead of arguing like lawyers!
So when you respond you will not only rescue yourself from the unnecessary drama but also be the wiser one amongst the two.
Later when you think the time is correct, in a conciliatory manner put forward your point of view!

When you're afraid of doing something, you keep repeating that fear in your head. Unintentionally, you are attracting more fear and sending out wrong signals in the universe. Thus, you fail to overcome your fear if you keep reciting it in your head. Instead you must think of possible ways of how you'll overcome it and act confident about it. This will attract confidence and positivity and you're half way through it!

"Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% of how you respond to it!"

So from today, pledge that no matter what you will talk only affirmatively and not react to any situation but respond thoughtfully! :D

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